Please keep an open mind
It is important for you to keep an open mind during the whole process, and to be open to receive whatever messages come through and from whoever is trying to connect with you. You never know who will come through. If the person has passed and they know you are in the sitting, it could be from someone you may have hardly known or have not heard from in a long time. Like a second cousin or a neighbor down the street or a grandfather you never met while he was here.
I do not have the ability to just connect with the person you may want to hear from. It's not quite as simple as picking up the phone. I cannot "call the dead". You may hear from old friends or you may be the middleman who passes on a message to a friend coming from one of their relatives. I'm not saying that you will not hear from the certain person you wish to connect with - I just cannot guarantee it. There is a process when doing mediumship and we have to honor it. I can only do my best to bring through whoever wants to come through with clarity and evidence. People who have passed on are not coming through to give you predictions. They are coming through to show you that life continues and they are still around you.
John’s reading guidelines
After doing this work for many years, I have realized how I work with those who have crossed over.
I am clairaudient (I hear), and I am clairsentient (I feel)
I hear the information that I am supposed to pass on, it is not like having a conversation like you and I would have with someone else. I get bits and pieces and try to put it all together.
Names sometimes sound the same, like Helen & Ellen, Dan & Don, Ted & Fred. If you hear me trying to sound out these types of names, please do not sit there and wait for the exact name. Also birthdays, anniversaries, and passings mean the same to me when I pass on info about dates. Often times I also feel what illness or condition took the person to the other side.
I will give you the information before you tell me anything. All I ask is that you work with me. I am not asking you to feed me information.
I also see symbolically (clairvoyant)
Example: If I am seeing a symbol for an apple it could be to just say the word “apple” not that you like fruit, but you could have grown up on Apple Street or lived near apple orchards. I have to give it as I am getting it or I may misinterpret the message.
Please listen to what information is coming forward, it may mean NOTHING to me but could be very significant to you. Also please DO NOT wait to hear what YOU want to hear. I can only give you what I am getting, and interpret the information to the best of my ability.
All kinds of evidence come out in a session, whether it is significant or what may seem to you to be quite trivial. It is all the small things that make up our lives.
If I give you a name, it does not have to be from someone who has passed, it could be someone here who you are connected with, as I never know where each session will go. Each and every session is different. If you do not understand the information being received, please write it down and check the information with your family.
All I ask is that you keep an open mind and listen to the information coming through, so you can have a positive and rewarding session.